He is 53 years old,married.I am 36 years old,married.We live together in the same flat.I have a daughter.?

as a 53 year old , who gave up everything to be with a 36 year old 8 years ago , and �67,000 pounds lighter, i think he is unsure what to do, hes got the best of both , he proberly feels sorry for his ex sleeping partner, and cant get enough of his new partner , he to you is amazing in bed,knows which on to press , my advice , it will end in tears sorry?